Panties vs Boxer

Note to self: Maybe Nikki needs a new wig at some point?? My own haircut, short in back/mid-length in front, has inspired me to think of new looks for my Sub. The current wig is a Farrah Fawcett inspired one, but maybe something spunky-er next time so. Pigtails or shredded bob anyone??  Though brunette could work, sticking to blond is best as it match her eyes and complexion better.

Panties vs Boxer-briefs: From a Doms POV

Boxers  
Though I enjoy any man walking around in boxers and a shirt, these images do not fit with the image a "sissy cheerleader" at all. 

• There is too much fabric for starters, which covers up too much and gives a Dom few opportunities to humiliate and punish
• "over the top band" is the only way of access
• Nikki just seems somewhat uncomfortable and not herself in them, and a happy Sissy Cheerbitch is a more trainable Sissy Cheerbitch

Panties 
These are Nikki's favs, wearing La Senza style silk panties. "Butt floss" G-strings in particular, as she puts it.

• Silky smooth, these feel awesome to the touch.  As a Dom who is very sensory-oriented it brings me pleasure to rub my fingers over these
• For Nikki these bring more smooth and sensitive stimulation
• They are sexier looking and more erotic all around
• So many ways to tease Nikki and they provide easier access
• A bare ass is a spankable ass
• As panties are "women's wear" making Nikki sometimes wear them all day, including out where her secret could be discovered by co-workers, is partially humiliating and partially thrilling
•  and most importantly....
  
  a happy Sissy Cheerbitch is a more trainable Sissy Cheerbitch 
  
  How ironic is it that this Dom prefers boy-style cut unders while her sub prefers silk panties, as the wearing the later makes me cringe (especially the G-string or thong styles)....shutter!!! 

BJ Blast

Thought I would try something new last night on Nikki, something from my Queen St shopping trip. It was juvenile I know, but I had always wondered if giving a blowjob with a mouth full of pop rocks was as great as I'd heard. The store even sold a "special" brand of pop rocks just for this purpose, so what the heck....something else to use to torture and pleasure my Sub.

For the record, though the cherry flavouring was nice, it's total gimmick!

The feed back I got was the BJ Blast was misleading, stating that it was for the Sub/guys pleasure, because Nikki didn't really get anything out of it. The powder tasted good and gave an interesting sensation to my mouth (yum, cherry and tingly), but nothing great. We agreed that REAL poprocks may actually have been better, being that they would be stronger. And the sugar-content made an even sticker mess.

So Dom experiment kinda failed....I say kind of because it was a very interesting night in other ways, all of which this Dom got a kick out of. Nikki was throughly put in her place and a good little Sub. She is becoming a better trained pink cheer-outfit wearing Sub with every use of handcuffs and collar.

Princess Powder Puff

I have nickname Nikki "Princess Powder Puff".

This is a rip off of the Powder Puff Girls cartoon show. The name just popped into my head early one and it's stuck I guess. There are many cheer uniforms Nikki owns, but for some reason (despite my dislike of pink) her bubble-gum pink one is my fav. It has the matching tights and boots, and is the sluttiest in my opinion.
The two blue ones and the red Glee rip off are nice, but it's from this pink ensemble that her nickname comes from and the one that gets my blood boiling the most. I just find that this is the one easiest to dominate her in. The skirt is the shortest (giving to the easiest access to spankable flesh) and, because I hate pink, humiliating and punishing comes easiest when she wears it. Pink is a terrible colour for her, I must beat this colour choice out of her wardrobe....but then isn't humiliation and punishment the key, so maybe this colour will stay around for a bit.

Nikki Senza is a lover of all things pink, girlie, and fluffy. Whatever frames her ass and legs best.

Update March 9th: I have been requested to stop calling her Princess Powder Puff. It really annoys her, which is kind of funny, but guess it was fun while it lasted. Nikki is still an uber-princess in my head, despite what she says.

Nikki should go to a "ballet body" class: Cosplay and Burlesque-heels

At my gym there is a "ballet body" class which is very popular, but if you ask me it's more of a "cheerleader" class. These women make stupid routines that are not graceful and ballet-like at all. I should know, I used to take general dance classes for years before getting more into light weight lifting and burlesque classes. This "ballet body" class is a bunch of women jumping around, trying to build tone some muscle, and trying to look as slutty and pick up as many men as possible.  It makes me want to gag!!
The class always reminds me of Nikki though as she'd fit right in.This is what a sissy cheerleader should do when trying to impress her Dom, be all sexy and graceful and jumping around. Shaking her ass, wearing a tight top and a short slutty skirt. She could learn a thing or two from these women, about how to look slutty and wear skimp outfits that leave little to the imagination. And make routines to impress her Dom ofcourse, as being put on the spot to preform can be humiliating (and thus sort of a turn-on). Maybe I should drag her there sometime and see how she fairs...or better yet, I'll make her go to the "Burlesque class" and learn to be sexy in heels. Getting the walk down is the more crucial part of a cheer uniform and a Sub, as ass shaking is mandatory in heels. Confidence is key to impressing your Dom.

On the way home from the gym tonight, being all turned on by the dancers and thoughts of Nikki, I made a stop for some sex-toy shopping on Queen St. I got myself a thing or two, but mostly thought of how best to dominate Nikki this weekend.  I''ll have to let you know how that goes, can't give to much away yet.

I came to a revelation today, being that I am a huge geek. The Dom and Sub relationship, at least the one I have, is kind of like cosplay. Creating a part for oneself to play and then committing to it whole hearted. Role playing, like the roles in RPGs, created by player. I actually have a few guy friends who often wear dresses and slutty outfits as part of their cosplay, so I guess Nikki is no so much an oddity in my world. She has picked her outfits, accessorized them nicely, and committed to her identity as a Sub. And being a Dom, and taking control of the situation, is kind of like an alternate identity for me, one who is demanding and confident. Generally sexy, which I always am though maybe an outfit of my own would help Aleks grow. Something black and slinky to go along with my whip, then I can look all "hard and rough and controlling"  (which I am naturally not) while Nikki looks are slutty and sissy-like...though sticking her in a princess dress once like I have seen so many cosplay guys wear could also be a kick.

Trust and Sharpies

Nikki wrote my name on herself and sent me picture the other day, which was a very sexy gesture after my weekend without her. She misspelled my name though…humiliating!! W.T.H!

New rule: Know how to spell your Dom’s name. It’s “Aleks”, not “Alex” bitch! 

Nikki actually has the ardasity to argue the spelling of my name, as if I wouldn't know it.

So yesterday I  thought I would be take control and correct my name, by writing “property of Aleks” on her ass….which left a big mark on the comforter we discovered the next morning. Now I’m really mortified!

New rule: Wash of all Sharpie marks before bed, as marker and sweat don’t mix.

Nikki passed on the couch last night, so I emailed myself picture of her in full gear and makeup for later black mail (despite vaguely being asked not too). I have hide them well, but this is a reminder of the oddity that has become my new relationship. They make me smile, Nikki is just so darn cute.

I have discovered being a Dom is not just about being demanding, confident and in control. It demands respect and a lot of trust between both Sub and Dom (which the characters in Fifty Shades do evidently have as an example). I feel this is especially true for gender reversals, like Nikki and I have. He is hot and sexy and has no verbal filter outside the bedroom (he used to be an army boy), but once the front door closes and the outfits come out I am the one who’s (supposed to be) in control and without filter.

I am still learning, be patient Nikki please.

I am a teacher so humiliating and yelling and punishing don’t come easily to me, plus I have a social shy nature as I said. But I went to school to study psychology so sometimes I ask a lot of questions, once I have done humiliating Nikki ofcourse.

I asked Nikki once “why me, my trust me since you said trust is so key”. He said that only two others know, and that he “just did” trust me. Somehow I had earned that trust through out drinking escapades and growing friendship. I was a nice girl, but he saw a “hidden dom” somewhere in me that was dying to get out. I just made sense, and I embraced my role of shopping for him without batting an eyelash. And no, he didn’t know why or when this fetish had started. He just had been this way for a long time, even before getting acquainted with the porn and BDSM community. He had “seen, but not necessarily done” a lot more than me in both these realms, but I was a quick study apparently.

Trust is super key for both Doms and Subs, new to the roll or well practiced. Oh, and not necessarily getting attached to one version or another of the other person when cross-dressing is involved. I like Nikki as much as I like her “9to5 normal guy” version, though I have to say that when only half the transformation happens (ex. no makeup or a clean shave due to laziness) the image standing in front of me is a little surreal. Not bad, just surreal as this is not where I thought our friendship was headed.

Whips and Heels

Feb 16^th

Nikki asked me to pick out the colours of her new cheer outfit today. This meant sitting for awhile online, perusing sites that make outfits for high schools and seeing which one turned me on. Purple, black and white were chosen quite quickly. Apparently cheersluts can’t make their own decisions, so as the new master my job was to command what I wanted my Sub to wear. Okay, fine, I can do this….make choices for someone else and be confident with my choices. Two thumbs up!

I hate shopping, but this whole “picking of a few new outfits” (we also measured Nikki for a maids uniform, which is a lot easier to come across for guys than you may think though expensive) was kind of fun. It lead to me also having to go on multiple trips to the mall to accessorize her new outfits. Ordering outfits online was no big deal, but ofcourse picking out tights and colour coordinating would be a challenge for any guy. I don’t mean “red tights go with the red outfit, and blue with the blue”, but finding fishnets for cheap that were tall enough and matching boots. OMG! The boots are epic, watching Nikki try and walk while swinging her ass!! Makes me laugh every time, though I know I shouldn’t. With them Nikki was over 7 feet, I am only 5’7.

I now can’t help when I go shopping for myself thinking “this would look great on Nikki” and buying new tights and accessorizes. It’s kind of fun to dress someone up much girly than I ever was.

Feb 19^th

I need a whip, I have concluded this. Every Dom needs a whip.

Nikki came accessorized with the outfits and whips and handcuffs,  but I have nothing. Ball gags so don’t do it for me, but since I used to teach riding a crop does. I like to be spanked, so lets see if this works for Nikki.

Next stop: Sex toy store

What good Cheersluts do:

-Get all sexy and “dolled up” for their masters, leaving little to the imagination. Short skirts obviously work very well for this, hence the cheer and maid outfits

-Speak their mind, making it very clear what they want (which is to be slutty…duh!!). Begging mandatory (from time to time) for instructions and direction!

-Take direction well when given

-Teach as well as learn (I know this is not totally Dom and Sub, but since I am still learning my “job” it has become a necessity)

-Love to be open to whatever in the bedroom

-Like being humiliated, called names like slut and sissy and Cheerbitch. Even go as far as writing in on yourself with sharpie, to remind you of your humiliation.

Nikki is pretty good in the bedroom thus far, though I wish she would be more vocal about her needs, so now the challenge is to teach her makeup. When you need lots of liquid courage to get into the mood putting on your own makeup can be challenging apparently, but this comes with your new Sub duties I think. I won’t always be around to do it for you, so practice I say. She never listens!!!

I was gone all last weekend and all she did was whine that I wasn’t around “for cheer practice” and to girlee her up. I told you so! I can sext you all night and humiliate you via phone I told her, but I can’t do you makeup when I’m not there. It just can’t be done!

Girlee up and learn to do your own makeup already!!! Man, do I have to do everything around here.

Doms and Subs: A new blog for a Sissy Cheerbitch

Feb 14 2013

           Metro Toronto Article

In today’s Metro paper there was an article on Dominatrix, a small article on a women who’s been a professional Dom for over 20 years. She got started out because of an ex, who was a stripper, and who discovered as of late people are more open about Subs and Doms due to the “Fifty Shades of Grey” fanaticism. It’s not that most people don’t blush when they ask her questions she said, but people are starting to ask questions more and more. Most of her client base is judge, lawyers, and men in “high status positions”, men who need and want the stress of being “in charge and responsible” relieved for a few hours (minus the sex part of a relationship for the most part). 

I thought this was an interesting piece to put in a “Valentines Day” additions of a paper…..and then it dawned on me. This was exactly the short of women I was striving to be. Not a professional Dom mind you, but a self-confident and authoritative sex goddess. Relationships had become less about flowers and chocolate, and more about whips and handcuffs.

Why? I had never wanted to be a Dom in the past, though experimenting in the bedroom had been fun, and  I had always enjoyed “being put in my place” and kinky sex. I was raised fairly conservative, with the whole “no sex before marriage” mentality of Eastern Europeans. Despite some flings and questionable “friends with benefits” outings in the past, nearing my 30s I “just wanted someone”.  A nice guy (or girl) who I could have a somewhat normal relationship with. Maybe one day a future together. Kids, condo, working professionals; the whole shebang.

And then “she” came into my life….a stupid sissy cheerleader with pompoms and silky panties flying.

A “drinking buddy” opened up to me one night, and Nikki was born. I had experimented with handcuffs and blindfolds before (very vanilla, I know), but now standing in front of me (with no warning what so ever and lots of liquid courage in him) was a guy over 6 feet in a full cheerleader costume. WHAT THE HELL!!!! My horoscope didn’t warn me about this coming to my life, at least I don’t think it did.

Despite my being somewhat shy and reserved this situation was somewhat intriguing, but what to do with this. I was not a Dom as far as I knew, but I guess I was going to have to learn, and quick, if this new friendship with Nikki was going to happen. There was no way I was going to get dominated and be the Sub, that was very clear despite my pouting and probing questions, so my alter-ego was born.

Aleks, Dominatrix and Punisher of Sissy Cheerleader Sluts