Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Doms and Subs: A new blog for a Sissy Cheerbitch

Feb 14 2013


           Metro Toronto Article
In today’s Metro paper there was an article on Dominatrix, a small article on a women who’s been a professional Dom for over 20 years. She got started out because of an ex, who was a stripper, and who discovered as of late people are more open about Subs and Doms due to the “Fifty Shades of Grey” fanaticism. It’s not that most people don’t blush when they ask her questions she said, but people are starting to ask questions more and more. Most of her client base is judge, lawyers, and men in “high status positions”, men who need and want the stress of being “in charge and responsible” relieved for a few hours (minus the sex part of a relationship for the most part). 

I thought this was an interesting piece to put in a “Valentines Day” additions of a paper…..and then it dawned on me. This was exactly the short of women I was striving to be. Not a professional Dom mind you, but a self-confident and authoritative sex goddess. Relationships had become less about flowers and chocolate, and more about whips and handcuffs.

Why? I had never wanted to be a Dom in the past, though experimenting in the bedroom had been fun, and  I had always enjoyed “being put in my place” and kinky sex. I was raised fairly conservative, with the whole “no sex before marriage” mentality of Eastern Europeans. Despite some flings and questionable “friends with benefits” outings in the past, nearing my 30s I “just wanted someone”.  A nice guy (or girl) who I could have a somewhat normal relationship with. Maybe one day a future together. Kids, condo, working professionals; the whole shebang.

And then “she” came into my life….a stupid sissy cheerleader with pompoms and silky panties flying.

A “drinking buddy” opened up to me one night, and Nikki was born. I had experimented with handcuffs and blindfolds before (very vanilla, I know), but now standing in front of me (with no warning what so ever and lots of liquid courage in him) was a guy over 6 feet in a full cheerleader costume. WHAT THE HELL!!!! My horoscope didn’t warn me about this coming to my life, at least I don’t think it did.

Despite my being somewhat shy and reserved this situation was somewhat intriguing, but what to do with this. I was not a Dom as far as I knew, but I guess I was going to have to learn, and quick, if this new friendship with Nikki was going to happen. There was no way I was going to get dominated and be the Sub, that was very clear despite my pouting and probing questions, so my alter-ego was born.

Aleks, Dominatrix and Punisher of Sissy Cheerleader Sluts

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